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Prayer is more than talking to God. It's also listening to God and learning from God. Prayer is a conversation with your heavenly Father.
Prayer is maybe both the simplest and most mysterious part of discipleship. At its core, prayer is simply talking to God and listening to God. Those two things are the bookends of prayer. But between those bookends are all kinds of questions like these:
And also these:
Prayer is not limited to a specific time, place, style, or script. Really the only guidelines for prayer in the Bible are that it be simple and direct (as modeled in the Lord’s prayer), that it be often (“pray on all occasions”), and that it be sincere and humble (as seen in the parable of the Pharisee and tax collector).
An Amazon search for “prayer” pulls up more than 60,000 items. There are lots of ideas and "experts" and guidance on prayer. Some are probably helpful. Some are probably nonsense.
Though it doesn’t provide a neat and tidy indexed “how-to” section on prayer, the Bible offers lots of guidance, wisdom, and examples. If you want to be a praying person — and every follower of Jesus is called to be a praying person — the best place to learn more about it is in God’s Word and then by actually doing it.
Begin with a conversation starter, then use some of these warm-up questions.
Use one or more of these passages to see what Scripture says about spending time in God’s Word. You can also engage with the passage by copying out part of it, rewriting it as a prayer, rephrasing it as its opposite, summarizing it with a single word or phrase, making a list or chart of similar and dissimilar things, or turning it into something visual like a doodle, design, or flowchart.
Read Matthew 14:13-23 (Jesus blesses food then prays alone) or Luke 22:39-46 (Jesus prays in a garden).
Read Luke 18:9-14 (parable of the Pharisee and tax-collector)
Read Matthew 6:9-18 (Jesus teaches about prayer).
Listen to my voice in the morning, LORD. Each morning I bring my requests to you and wait expectantly. (Psalm 5:3)
But in my distress I cried out to the LORD; yes, I prayed to my God for help. He heard me from his sanctuary; my cry to him reached his ears. (Psalm 18:6)
The LORD is close to all who call on him, yes, to all who call on him in truth. (Psalm 145:18)
[The believers] all met together and were constantly united in prayer. (Acts 1:14a)
And the Holy Spirit helps us in our weakness. For example, when we don’t know what God wants us to pray for, the Holy Spirit prays for us with groanings that can’t be expressed in words. And the Father who knows all hearts knows what the Spirit is saying, for the Spirit pleads for us believers in harmony with God’s own will. (Romans 8:26-27)
Rejoice in our confident hope. Be patient in trouble, and keep on praying. (Romans 12:12)
Devote yourselves to prayer with an alert mind and a thankful heart. (Philippians 4:2)
Don’t worry about anything; instead pray about everything. Tell God what you need and thank him for all he has done. Then you will experience God’s peace, which exceeds anything we can understand. His peace will guard your hearts and minds as you live in Christ Jesus. (Philippians 4:6-7)
Devote yourselves to prayer with an alert mind and a thankful heart. (Colossians 4:2)
Always be joyful. Never stop praying. Be thankful in all circumstances, for this is God’s will for those who belong to Christ Jesus. (1 Thessalonians 5:16-18)
Confess your sins to each other and pray for each other so that you may be healed. The earnest prayer of a righteous person is powerful and effective. (James 5:16)
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